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It's a controversy that parents employ private detectives for teaching
their children. Guangdong
Channel (July 6, 16:45 pm) |
A
beautiful 15 years girl who played truant and stayed
out overnight usually, studying at a
junior high school in Guangzhou. Her parents question her so many times but no
answer that they entrusted private detectives to investigate her. As a result,
they found out that she cohabited with a boy outside. It is reported by a
private detective company that they accept similar cases more and more.
The
girl stayed out overnight so usually that her mother entrusted detectives to
investigate her.
Recently,
one consultation company in Guangzhou accepted a special investigation business.
The client was a middle-aged woman, and the informant was her daughter named
Xiaoqi, who was a 15 years student.
The
client told that Xiaoqi was an underachiever and usually stayed out overnight
recently. Her teacher also reflected that she played truant many times. Because
the client and her husband were very busy with work usually, they had no time to
teach their daughter. She allowed them ask for reason but never told truth. She just said that she had no hope to pass the graduation exam. Her
mother worried about her so that asked detectives for help.
After
accepting the case, detectives searched after her at an Internet bar, according to
her pictures provided by her parents. She is very beautiful and over 1.7 meter,
though she was only 15 years. She was playing crazy with a group of girls and
boys. And they idled
away in seeking pleasure far into the night. After saying goodbye, she entered a
residence building with a boy alone but didn’t
come out all night.
It
was said that the boy didn’t
live together with his parents, and his family had some housing possibly.
Detectives doubted that he had cohabited with Xiaoqi for many days, but their
parents all were unwitting. Detectives told the fact to the client. She
felt
serious and dared not to question Xiaoqi, in order no to hurt her. She thought
that she neglected to teach her daughter, for working busily. So she
specially extruded some time to communicate with her daughter and tried hard for
remediation.
The
boy didn’t
take the car so that his parents entrusted detectives to protect him.
Detectives
protected a 16-year high school boy who came from western Guangdong, Xiaojian
recently.
He studied at Nanhai branch school of a famous high school. Not long ago, the school organized students to go to Guangzhou for tour. His parents arranged a car and booked a hotel for him. But he refused and insisted to take the school bus. This unusual activity caused his parents' suspicion and worry. So the detectives of an investigation company had been waiting for him when the school bus arrived in Guangzhou. Detectives discovered that he didn’t entry the park to attend the activity when bus arrived in the martyr memorial park. He and a few classmates entered an Internet bar near the park to play the network games. Then, he went to some other place, such as the Tianhe mall……etc. And he lodged at a classmate’s home for night.
Detectives
ended their protection until he got on the school bus at the second day 19:00.
Then, detectives reported the whereabouts of two days to his parents, showed he
didn't derail. His parents disburdened until then.
This
kind of case becomes a new business of the private detective companies.
As
a chief of a consultation company in Guangzhou, MR. Chen says that it comes out a
new kind of business ——
parents
entrust detectives to investigate their children. It takes on increscent trend
recently. Reporters interviewed other consultation companies, and known that
they have accepted many similar cases.
Chen
says that some parents ask detectives for help in order that their children will
not get bad, for having no time to teach their children.
He says that students who are investigated usually only know to play. They have never cognized that they were followed. Detectives only take charge of investigation according to the commitment. They don't know parents how to deal with the result. But they usually emphasize that parents shouldn't let the investigation out to their children.
(By Wen Jianmin)
Experts
say that parents would rather hire a PD than communicate with their children. It’s
more important for them to help their children in time.
As
a director of the Guangdong Family Education Seminar and the headmaster of 109
middle school, Zhang
Zhongqing says that it's
not a good way for parents to entrust detectives to investigate their children,
in view of the educational regulation which let children grow up healthily. But it
can play the certain role in helping parents to teach children when they
have already lost control of them or they have really misbehaved.
Zhang
says that people can't
simply judge it good or not. The educational regulation promotes to give strong
encouragements and strict directs to children during their growth. It disobeys
the regulation to ask detectives to trail after them. Its
advantage is to help parents to know about and control children's
situation in time,
when they have really misbehaved, so that parents can make some remedy.
Zhang
reminds parents that it should be better if they can work well to teach their
children before they misbehave.
It
may result in trust crisis.
A
associate professor of the education department of Guangzhou university, Lin
Donggui says that it easily result in trust crisis when children find their
parents ask detectives to investigate them for doubt. They will not trust their
parents any more.
Lin
says that is a distrustful and disrespectful behavior for parents to ask
detectives to follow their children. In view of the pedagogy
angle, it is the foundation or precondition of education to give children
respect and trust. If parents lose this foundation to teach children, it will be
more difficult for children to accept.
Lin suggests parents should discover the misbehavior symptom of children and take some steps as early as possible. It is more difficult to teach children when the affair has developed to need ask detectives for help. Parents should be more tolerant and comprehending when the symptom appears, should listen attentively to the children's aspirations, shouldn't cry down in stern voice or take forcible steps and should let children feel the warmth of family so that they can understand their concern.
(By Chen Jingjing)
Reactions:
many parents and students refuse PD.
Students:
They will run away for protest.
How to deal with if your parents ask detectives to follow you? Reporters interview some students in school. A Grade six student of Xianlie Zhonglu elementary school, Xiaoyun says that she will feel bad and uneasy if she was followed. Once she discovers it, she will pull with the distance more far between she and her parents, and will not trust them any more.
A
first-grade girl of the sixth middle school shows more drastically. If her
parents treat her like that, she will take some extreme step for protest, such
as running away from home. During interview, reporters find that it has 30%
students will run away from home to protest the distrustful behavior of their
parents.
Some
students show understanding. A grade-two girl of the ninety-seventh middle
school says that this activity of parents is because of their concern. Children
also have the responsibility if their parents entrust detectives. They must have
had some unwonted activities that let their parents worry about. She will be
very disappointed and feel sad very much if she meets with it herself.
Parents:
it is not an inadvisable way for them to entrust detectives to follow their
children.
A
mother, Ms Deng says that entrusting detectives is another way for parents if
they really have no time to take care of their children. It is similar to ask
relatives to take care of them. Children are underage after all and need to be
warded.
But
more parents hold an oppositive attitude to this. Many parents think that it is
very absurd. They say that they should think much of how to teach and
communicate with children by themselves but not to ask detectives to follow
their children. It only
explains that parents breach of duty if they can’t
control their children.
A
parent working in the subsidiary
hospital of Zhongshan university tells reporters that he believes only who are
busy with work whole day and are ignorant of teaching their children will do
this. Parents should trust their children, should be self-examination, should
take time off to accompany them, should listen to their aspiration frequently
and should understand them more.
(By
Chen Jingjing and Wu Fan)
New
Express
By Wen Jianmin
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